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The myth or actuality of the invisible string

We’ve all heard the love story that restored our faith in soulmates. The one that  encourages hope about that one special, singular person waiting for you while the universe does everything in its power to bring the two of you together. In my experiences in love, friendship, and fate, the invisible string is an unbreakable

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The myth of college soulmates: navigating expectations of love in your 20s 

Why the pressure to find ‘the one’ in university may be misguided For years, everyone has told me that my post-secondary years will define my future, including my romantic future—no pressure! The idea that university is where everyone meets their ‘soulmate,’ or the person they’ll spend the rest of their life with, is prevalent among

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Twink culture

Desire, gender, and the hetero masculine gaze Content Warning: this article discusses eating disorders and racism, which may be triggering for some readers. It is with a reddened face that I confess that my first (fictional) gay crush was Anatole Kuragin from a manga adaptation of Tolstoi’s War and Peace. Those with conservative upbringings who

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Why You’re Falling Prey to Situationships

Navigating the Gray Area of Modern Dating ‘Situationship.’   The term sprung into popularity as of late to put an easy label on our confusing and often passionate connection with someone. Perhaps you are  no stranger to the concept of a situationship, possibly even having experienced it yourself . How did that go for you?   Situationships

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